Teasing is a lot of fun. It’s a great way to add a little bit of sexual tension to your lovemaking. I think everybody enjoys a certain amount of teasing. Men can tease women, women can tease the men and it always adds a little spice in your relationship if you do it right, but it can also fall flat and just kind of annoying if done incorrectly.

In basic sense, teasing is when you kind of go in for the kiss and then as your partner comes a little closer, you can back out just a little bit. It’s immediately kind of fun, playful and makes your partner want to grab you and pull you in.

How To Tease Her

If you’re a man and you’re trying to tease your woman, you can be touching and licking around her breasts without ever making contact with her nipples and letting that excitement builds. If you’re going down on your woman, you can kiss her inner thighs and her belly and work your way closer without actually touching her clitoris until the excitement builds so much that her hips are thrusting towards you. You can just put the very tip of your penis inside of her with very shallow thrusts to drive her crazy until she wants deeper penetration.

How To Tease Him

If you’re a woman and you get to play this game too, if you are going down on him, you can be kissing his penis from top to bottom without letting him put it in your mouth until he’s just going crazy. You can do the same thing if he’s trying to thrust inside of you during intercourse. You can actually put your palms against his hips or even push down with your hips through the back of your thighs and prevent him from penetrating you deeply. This will build up a lot of sexual tension and sexual energy.

How To Do It Right

Now all of these things can add a lot of fun to your sex life, but if you do them all the time and become your routine, it’s not a tease anymore and then it’s just kind of what you do. Use this stuff when it’s fun. If you’re not smiling or you’re on the edge of frustration than fun, you’re probably doing it wrong. If you don’t get this, then don’t tease because teasing can really fall flat.

The real key to not doing this wrong is to not do it as a technique. The way to do this properly is to be connected and to be having fun with your partner. The art of teasing is a two-way thing and when it’s not two-way, it’s not working. You can feel it immediately when it’s working and when it’s not. It becomes something that you’re organically connected with your lover on.

You need to be really aware of where your partner is erotically in the moment. If you have that awareness, then you can build this beautiful taut line of sexual tension and you can play that for as long as it’s fun.

Teasing can be super fun and the two of you can be charged up sexually, which is a wonderful element to bring into your sex life.